21 thoughts on “Dating someone who isn’t equally yoked might hinder your”
Put GOD 1ST. IT WILL GO WELL WITH THE. MANY OF US CHRISTIANS THINK WE CAN CHOOSE OUT WHO WE WANT TO BE WITH IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE. THINK AGAIN PRAY TO GOD KNEEL BY YOUR BED . TALK TO GOD WAIT ON YOUR ANSWER …. WHAT GOES UP ⬆️ MUST COME DOWN . PRAYER IS POWER
I loved a man for ten years. He gave me a chance, and I felt like it was prayers answered. Even when he wasn’t in my life, I prayed for him. On our first phone call I shared with him how important Jesus is to me—as someone who survived torture, my faith has kept me alive. Jesus is a relatable figure to me.
But during our first real fight, he screamed over the phone: “I hate Christians. I HATE CHRIST.” It was jarring and honestly, a little scary. So I stayed calm, hung up the phone, and cried. I already knew what I needed to do.
I prayed. He had also threatened to hurt me, so calling felt dangerous. I wrote a breakup message instead. I didn’t want to send it—I was afraid. So I prayed again. And in that moment, I felt my thumb be press down—physically pressed down to hit send. Like my hand was being guided. And just like that, it was done.
Later, I found out he had been convicted of child abuse in Montana. He’d lied about everything—even his military service.
I’m in a situation that we connected well and expressed our beliefs but then as we got deeper in that conversation I recognized how differently we see things.
He is more spiritual and I’m a true believer.
He says now he believes in a higher power and there is “a God” and I know God, Jesus and Holy Spirit.
I’m abstinent, he isn’t and is willing to conform to that practice for me .. not God …For me .
He is okay with me wanting to raise my Children Christian but in that sentence he subtracts himself from that … sounds like a divided home.
But I struggle with how to end the connection( not in a relationship) I told him two times these are deal breakers for me (unequally yolked, someone who isn’t okay with abstinence. I appreciate his willingness to try but it’s not it) and he is still confused and not getting that we are not aligned.🥴
I need help trying to find an approach that gives off my view of my faith and also remaining firm on my boundary.
I want a man of god and he says he is not that. And he knows that’s what I want. So know God didn’t orchestrate this because now I’m confused.
I just wanted to vent a little bit.
If you’re reading this thank you lol Christian dating is so hard
It may seem fine at first but then the Holy Spirit will start to give you signs. There ain't no talking to an unbeliever. Eventually the convos will dry up, you can't agree on anything, stomach hurts all the time, betwixt and between mentally. Then you leave them and the peace comes back, better blood pressure, better sleep, no knots in your stomach, heck you can sleep better. So glad I walked away from a homosexual life. I choose Christ and won't turn back. Oil and water will never mix and has never mixed before.
Recently broke up with a non Christian of 5 months because us being unequally yoked became polarizing. I feel so guilty that I hurt him and ashamed because I knew better. Made the right decision but my heart is still unsettled
Met her and she was not a Christian, after few months of introducing her to Christ she’s more interested and prays to Jesus. But she doesn’t agree with sex as a sin, practicing lgbtq as a sin, and abortion as a sin. It’s hard because my heart wants to stay but my mind knows what to do
A Christian should already know, they are NOT TO EVEN date a non Christian. It is misleading to the non believer, and will hurt both your hearts. To willfully engage your heart in that is disobeying God's will.
At age 26 I was willing to accept God's will to remain single, and THEN he brought marriage to my life at age 31. We had started dating when I was 27. I wasn't l👀king for a friendship. In fact I was pleasantly surprised and a bit resistant at first, but I found myself comfortable and at peace dating him…who then became my husband. He was a Christian, with whom I'd been friends with in my church first, started pursuing me, and then after 7 years of marriage, committed adultery when my son was 14 months old. I am 58 now, and over the years, before and after my marriage… I have had to turn down a number of men because they're not born again..even though I am attracted to them. God gives grace and strength to do what is right, even though your carnal flesh wants otherwise. I even recall being attracted to a married man in my church. I asked God to take those feelings away and he did. I look at that brother now and feel only Christian brotherly love. If you are struggling with attraction to someone that is against God's will, then pray. God will take those feelings away, he did for me. Better to be single and live in peace.
A Christian should NEVER marry/date a Muslim. They will just turn you towards their own religion and away from the Lord. I know that because I have an aunt on my Dad's side who is Christian but she married a Muslim and ended up becoming one.
I had problems with girls since I was 19. I was offended not long after starting relationships with all of them so I never even came close to falling in love with them. I'm 50 now made lots of money and I'm still single and alone. Strange existence 😮
I think the problem here is we don't love Jesus enough. If you love God and you're growing in your faith and you truly see him as enough, you wouldn't be seeking out a relationship God has clearly told you not to get into. I don't even see how you can find someone who doesn't want God attractive.
The is no bvllshvt like religion.Its amazing that adults gather like children on Sunday to follow a Disney book that has existed among 4000 others,but somehow everyone believes theirs is correct.Grown idviots
Put GOD 1ST. IT WILL GO WELL WITH THE. MANY OF US CHRISTIANS THINK WE CAN CHOOSE OUT WHO WE WANT TO BE WITH IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE. THINK AGAIN PRAY TO GOD KNEEL BY YOUR BED . TALK TO GOD WAIT ON YOUR ANSWER …. WHAT GOES UP ⬆️ MUST COME DOWN . PRAYER IS POWER
What if you just convert her into a Christian? Problem solved
the title is straight facts pple
Im an Atheist and my wife is a Christian. We work great together
This means men will be forever alone.
Not one Godly (single)
Woman is on this planet
I have prayed so hard for my girlfriend to step it up spiritually, but she loves this world
I loved a man for ten years. He gave me a chance, and I felt like it was prayers answered. Even when he wasn’t in my life, I prayed for him. On our first phone call I shared with him how important Jesus is to me—as someone who survived torture, my faith has kept me alive. Jesus is a relatable figure to me.
But during our first real fight, he screamed over the phone:
“I hate Christians. I HATE CHRIST.”
It was jarring and honestly, a little scary. So I stayed calm, hung up the phone, and cried. I already knew what I needed to do.
I prayed.
He had also threatened to hurt me, so calling felt dangerous. I wrote a breakup message instead. I didn’t want to send it—I was afraid. So I prayed again. And in that moment, I felt my thumb be press down—physically pressed down to hit send. Like my hand was being guided. And just like that, it was done.
Later, I found out he had been convicted of child abuse in Montana.
He’d lied about everything—even his military service.
I believe god protected me there
That’s exactly why he hasn’t given a response to my prayer about this man.
It’s already in the word . And I know it.
I’m in a situation that we connected well and expressed our beliefs but then as we got deeper in that conversation I recognized how differently we see things.
He is more spiritual and I’m a true believer.
He says now he believes in a higher power and there is “a God” and I know God, Jesus and Holy Spirit.
I’m abstinent, he isn’t and is willing to conform to that practice for me .. not God …For me .
He is okay with me wanting to raise my Children Christian but in that sentence he subtracts himself from that … sounds like a divided home.
But I struggle with how to end the connection( not in a relationship)
I told him two times these are deal breakers for me (unequally yolked, someone who isn’t okay with abstinence. I appreciate his willingness to try but it’s not it) and he is still confused and not getting that we are not aligned.🥴
I need help trying to find an approach that gives off my view of my faith and also remaining firm on my boundary.
I want a man of god and he says he is not that. And he knows that’s what I want. So know God didn’t orchestrate this because now I’m confused.
I just wanted to vent a little bit.
If you’re reading this thank you lol
Christian dating is so hard
It may seem fine at first but then the Holy Spirit will start to give you signs. There ain't no talking to an unbeliever. Eventually the convos will dry up, you can't agree on anything, stomach hurts all the time, betwixt and between mentally. Then you leave them and the peace comes back, better blood pressure, better sleep, no knots in your stomach, heck you can sleep better. So glad I walked away from a homosexual life. I choose Christ and won't turn back. Oil and water will never mix and has never mixed before.
Wheres the whole video ?
Dont do it people please dont!! Its Hell!! But we think and move with our hearts! Love is powerful guys. Dont do it!
Recently broke up with a non Christian of 5 months because us being unequally yoked became polarizing. I feel so guilty that I hurt him and ashamed because I knew better. Made the right decision but my heart is still unsettled
Met her and she was not a Christian, after few months of introducing her to Christ she’s more interested and prays to Jesus. But she doesn’t agree with sex as a sin, practicing lgbtq as a sin, and abortion as a sin. It’s hard because my heart wants to stay but my mind knows what to do
A Christian should already know, they are NOT TO EVEN date a non Christian. It is misleading to the non believer, and will hurt both your hearts. To willfully engage your heart in that is disobeying God's will.
At age 26 I was willing to accept God's will to remain single, and THEN he brought marriage to my life at age 31. We had started dating when I was 27. I wasn't
l👀king for a friendship. In fact I was pleasantly surprised and a bit resistant at first, but I found myself comfortable and at peace dating him…who then became my husband. He was a Christian, with whom I'd been friends with in my church first, started pursuing me, and then after 7 years of marriage, committed adultery when my son was 14 months old.
I am 58 now, and over the years, before and after my marriage… I have had to turn down a number of men because they're not born again..even though I am attracted to them. God gives grace and strength to do what is right, even though your carnal flesh wants otherwise.
I even recall being attracted to a married man in my church. I asked God to take those feelings away and he did. I look at that brother now and feel only Christian brotherly love. If you are struggling with attraction to someone that is against God's will, then pray. God will take those feelings away, he did for me.
Better to be single and live in peace.
A Christian should NEVER marry/date a Muslim. They will just turn you towards their own religion and away from the Lord. I know that because I have an aunt on my Dad's side who is Christian but she married a Muslim and ended up becoming one.
I’m a Christian and if I’m in love I’m in love.
I had problems with girls since I was 19. I was offended not long after starting relationships with all of them so I never even came close to falling in love with them. I'm 50 now made lots of money and I'm still single and alone. Strange existence 😮
PIVOT!!
I think the problem here is we don't love Jesus enough. If you love God and you're growing in your faith and you truly see him as enough, you wouldn't be seeking out a relationship God has clearly told you not to get into. I don't even see how you can find someone who doesn't want God attractive.
The is no bvllshvt like religion.Its amazing that adults gather like children on Sunday to follow a Disney book that has existed among 4000 others,but somehow everyone believes theirs is correct.Grown idviots
You have your creepy pastors to blame for making women not going to church