The New Book (2013) written by Prof. VVO "Bhedlindaba" kaLuphuzi Mkhize (BA, BA Hons, MA, MBA, PhD) titled Umsamo - Umhlahlo Wezangoma (Udwendwe lwezihlanya endleleni yobizo lwabaphansi) source 
A relationship is a contested space that needs endless vigilance. Namhlanje sincokola nga some of the attacks on a relationship. Unfortunately thina singoo mayezeni, our advice will be exclusively the mayezeni approach. That is what the video is about. There are other approaches out there… #Vusilanga #Isichitho #Relationship @vusilangalaselenge3969 source